Wednesday, August 01, 2007

The Boy Infuriates Me

What is it with men?

I have never had so much attention now that I do not want it.

Today, I was proposed to. 8 months I wait for a certain someone to get off his arse and realise what he wants. Well now he has and he chooses to tell me when I am no longer available to him.

Do men just wait until a girl looks happy to throw not just a spanner but a whole tool box in to the works?

My head is now in a barn (the shed was to small) and I am totally confused about what I want.

I don't mess people around and I am not going to throw Richard away just because Joe has finally realised that I was nuts about him and he suddenly wants to devote everything that he is to me. I told him I had never hurt anyone in my life and it was true. I don't intend to change that now.

But the fact is that I was, and still am, head over heels for Joe. If Richard wasn't about I would have said yes immediately and would currently be on a beach with him in Mexico having a beautiful wedding with a little Mexican band playing and fajita's instead of a buffet.

Instead I am confused and tired.

Someone wanna point me in the right direction?

18 comments:

Lorna's Ark said...

bring on the fajita's!!! Marry Joe you know its what you really want babe. I love you and will be here for you what ever you decide. xxxx

woot said...

So your entire argument for who I should spend the rest of my life with is purely based on your current food cravings? Probs not the best way for me to decide but better thn hiding under my duvet until they both get sick of me and figure out i'm not worth the effort...

Lorna's Ark said...

The only person who can decide is you sorry

Charlie said...

Who would you rather go to Tescos with? who has seen you at your worst (and still likes you), who would you rather sit and eat pizza with? whose dad do you prefer(cos thats what they will look like in 30-40 yrs time)who do you see yourself having a future with?
Can you see you and richard being in it for the long run. who would you regret not being with? who would you rather snuggle up to on the couch? can you be you, with no facade/mask with just one of them. who are you most happy with. who do you see will treat you the best (even when you are at your worst).

I'm here whatever you decide whether it be posh nosh, fajitas, pizza, maccy ds, kfc or pub lunch.

Just give me a shout when you decide so we can celebrate with tea/champers/wine/beer/munchies!

woot said...

Charlie's comment was way more helpful than yours, Lonra...

stu said...

thought i would leave what little wisdom i have. men are pigs. pick the one that is least pig like. know you are head over heals with joe but make sure he is asking you for the right reasons not just cos you have new bloke. and also make sure in couple of years time you are not in becky's position. whatever happens we love you and will support you whatever happens.

woot said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, Stu commented on my blog...!

Cheers babe.

Least pig like. So a woman then...

Lorna's Ark said...

Doesn't comment on my boody blog!!!!! huff huff

Lorna's Ark said...

and everytime charlie said, I said to you on the phone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its ok I know you hate me just say!!! I mean you tease me about meeting Richard and tell everyone at work stuff you don't tell me sob sob, and then you leave your friend in need to go the cinema!! Some best friend...huff huff...

Lorna's Ark said...

oh and I didnt et my bloody fajita's!!!! Got extra chicken out jst for Paula and then she buggers off and leaves me hungry and friendless........

Lorna's Ark said...

it should say get!!!!! no et

woot said...

Lol!

I wuv wu!

So. Should I get married?

stu said...

yes but only if its to christian slater

Lorna's Ark said...

Yes to me and we can run away from this mess and leave Stu with the kids!!! I'll send him the new one when its born via parcel force as the post office is on strike again!!

Lorna's Ark said...

oops forgot I was mad with u huh...

woot said...

You would want me to marry Christain Slater? He of the bad temper and beater of girlfriends? (Yes I love his movies but mostly the old ones before his hair receeded to much and before he went to prison or court or something for beating the crap out of his bird.)

Yay - Lorna can we have our wedding on the beach in Mexico with the Mariachi (sp?) band and fajitas and everything?

charlie said...

Hey, Lorna wanted to marry me (not fair)

woot said...

Lol - she can have a hareem!